Harry, Joan, Lewis, Bess & baby Eileen |
In
September of 1925, Bess was on her way to the shops one day and after crossing
the triangle of land that separated two major streets in Point St. Charles; she
suffered what she called “a broken appendix”. The pain caused her pass out and fall
on to the street where luckily a car wheel caught only her hat and she
subsequently woke up in the hospital.
When she awoke she asked the nurse “Where
is my baby? Oh madam, you don’t have a baby” the nurse said. Bess replied indignantly “Yes I do, she has got to be fed. The nurse
then went to fetch the doctor.” Sure enough the doctor arrived and
confirmed that she had just come out of emergency surgery for a burst appendix
saying, “Oh but you don’t have a baby
Mrs. Welch, you didn’t have a child, you had an appendix”. At the time Eileen was about four months old.
Bess tells of her operation being called “frying pan” surgery and that she was in a hospital where the surgeon wanted to show and quiz his students on his work. She agreed and so he did. She explained it was called a frying pan surgery because you usually have one slice in a surgery but she had three (“a cut, a cut, a cut” she said) all of which created a frying pan shape. I expect this was medical slang as I have consulted a couple of medical history sources who can find no trace of this term. A librarian from the Osler Library of the History of Medicine suggested that perhaps it referred to the traditional one, the MacArthur/McBurney incision, involving multiple cuts that split three layers of the abdominal muscle. It is also referred to as a “Grid iron” incision. This incision was pioneered at the very end of the 19th century.
With the old familiar clock chiming an accompaniment, Bess continued her account of remaining in the hospital for a few days and then being sent directly from the hospital to a location high above Lac Chapleau for several weeks of convalescence. She described it as being a three-quarter day train journey from Montreal, “high up in Quebec”.
It was a monastery; there were three big buildings one of which was used by recovering patients sent from the hospital, luckily, with no cost to the patient. It was a beautiful peaceful place especially in the fall, with a large veranda surrounding the building. From it you could look down and out over the lake while listening to someone playing the piano. “It was so beautiful” Bess said. Usually at this time of year the trees would still have some of their colourful autumn leaves and it would probably be cool but still warm in the sun. .
Bess told her niece about one day when a loud alarm went off. “It was a beautiful Sunday morning, the sky was beautiful, blue as a
blue ribbon and the sun was shining – when suddenly the big bell rang - bong –
bong – bong - bong. We had been warned to stand stock still if the bell rang and
I did. In two minutes I couldn’t see
anything. You couldn’t see your face, you couldn’t see the lake, you couldn’t
see the trees, you couldn’t see the sky; you couldn’t see anything!
After a long dramatic pause ..."Fog!” she said. The building was high above the lake and it was very dangerous to move around the property in the fog.
After a long dramatic pause ..."Fog!” she said. The building was high above the lake and it was very dangerous to move around the property in the fog.
Unfortunately my
mother Joan now has no recollection of the time her mother Bess was in the
hospital and her convalescence but we agreed that likely her father Harry got
them ready for school in the morning and they went to Aunt Nellie’s until he
came home from work.
We often heard the
story of how Harry repaired, cleaned and polished the family’s shoes to a
military shine every night and laid them outside the bedroom doors every
morning. There were very few pairs of shoes so they were worth looking after
well and of course the state of your shoes said something about you or your
family. Run down shoes did not speak well of you.
Bess’s employer, the
wife of the head of the Toronto Bank branch was involved in charities that
helped a lot of children and when Bess did not turn up for work the day after
her accident, her employer was immediately concerned for the baby (Eileen).
Harry, Eileen & Bess |
Bess returned from the
monastery and after three weeks recovery at home she went back to the hospital
for a check up, then she found out where she could find Eileen.
On entering the
children’s hospital she said “I have come
to fetch my child, my little girl, Eileen Welch”. “Huh, you haven’t got a chance of taking that child out of here, the
doctor’s got it” the nurse replied.
Bess said “I thought Harry had put her in the home for good, they wouldn’t tell me anything”. The nurse then phoned around to see where she was.
Bess said “I thought Harry had put her in the home for good, they wouldn’t tell me anything”. The nurse then phoned around to see where she was.
Finally a doctor came
into the room with a child under his arm kicking her legs. He gave the baby to
the nurse saying “you had better change
her and I’ll take her out again” then left the room without even speaking
to Bess. The nurse said nothing and left with the baby. “I was
so bewildered” Bess said.
However when the nurse
returned, she said “you’re going to have
an awful job, that doctor takes her everywhere he goes”. She finally gave
Bess her daughter. “She was so spoiled – she
was spoiled forever and forever” Bess dramatically declared.
Albert & Stan Blaney |
A large forest fire near Rock Bay, British Columbia brought logging operations to a halt putting them both out of work and they had difficulty finding other work in the Vancouver area.
In a story co-written
with his niece Patricia Blaney Koretchuk, Albert Blaney described the fire as
follows:
The logging company had to send men quickly up
to the heard of the railroad line and get the people out before the fire got
them and destroyed the tracks. There were families, women and children up
there. They put water barrels on the logging flat cars, and they put tarps over
the top so that people could be under cover. There was some kind of hand pumps
in the barrels so that people could squirt water on the tarps for protection as
they passed through the hot areas.
After they got everybody out, it wasn’t very
long before the fire had ruined all the bridges. The heat was so great that the
tracks were bent into arcs, or bent down into the lay of the land. Miles and
miles of timber were ruined, so it wasn’t worthwhile going in there logging any
more. After the fire, I left Rock Bay for Vancouver because the logging company
completely gave it up in that area”.
For a time in Montreal, they worked as aides at the Montreal hospital where Bess worked in the kitchens. Stan also found a job at the Belding Corticelli Silk factory. They all found any work they
could and Bess at age 91 wrote to a relative in England, about that time.
“Harry
suffered heart attacks at times, which made him lose his work so many times. So
with 3 children after 2 years here, I had to find some work of any kind to help
to keep the rent paid. I got a job cleaning taxis; washing them at night. Oh
Boy!!”
“A British Officer, at whose home I washed &
cleaned, and his wife gave me things to help with Joan's clothes; they had a
girl the same age. He came to see Harry & wrote to army headquarters &
tried to get us home but as Harry had no pension they would not help him, so on
we go, what a life, yes I had no alternative.
Bess continued, "then I got a day job with a well to do family who came
from England same time as we did & she could understand what we were up
against here. Anyway after a short time she told me she had wished she could go
back to England but he would not go. She said her brother was in Toronto with
his wife & family and they would pay our way if I would go to work for them
in Toronto”.
So Bess, Harry
and their three children moved again.
Many thanks to my cousin Patricia Blaney
Koretchuk as most of the quotes in the Montreal years Part I and Part II are
from her recorded interview of Bess in 1988. Also thanks to my English cousin
Jon Everett for sharing his correspondence from Bess, parts of which I have
quoted above including the photo of Albert & Stan in Montreal and Albert's Aunt Clara Elcocks and Michael Murphy's cabin in Rock Bay.
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